1. I wanted to take off a few pounds and I gained a few. My busy teaching job from years past turned into a much more sedentary one when I switched districts and ended up on my butt most of the day as kids just work through a computer program instead of actually being taught in the way I'm used to teaching. I've come to the realization that age and decreased activity levels make weight loss a bit more challenging. However, I armed with a plan and a commitment to action. This will be fine.
2. Related to #1. I have been trying like crazy to find a new job. I thought I was going to get a 911 Dispatch position. I felt like the interview went so well, and it felt like a really good fit for me. Then I got the 'we're sorry...we've decided to go with someone else' e-mail. But it's okay. Even though I don't love my job this year, it's still a job that pays the bills, it's got excellent vacation time, and it's a part of the state retirement plan I have been vested in for awhile...something that becomes increasingly important to me with each passing year.
3. I wanted to increase my $$ and instead, I have watched it diminish down to nothing as unforeseen circumstances consistently came to visit and the price of everything went up. But it's okay. Things are a little bit more challenging to manage, but we're still managing, and that's something for which I am eternally grateful.
I'm not sad that I didn't meet any of my 2023 goals because the chance to stop working on them has not arrived with a new year. Those are all fluid goals, and I am still perfectly capable of working to make them our reality.
All of the important things, the truly important things like all of my children/grandchildren being safe, healthy and happy; we have a roof over our heads; we have food to eat; I have a job, etc., are in place and they make me grateful. Especially true in a year that so so much chaos and unrest in the news. It's hard to be disappointed in not reaching goals that are still attainable. Instead, I find myself very content and very happy, and yes, I'm still very much looking forward to what wonderful things the new year may bring.
So, just like most recent years, I don't really have a list of New Year's resolutions to make, but I do still have ongoing goals I'd love to meet. I'm not worried. Peace, health and happiness are what matters most and with those things (knock on wood), our family has been very blessed.
Wishing you and yours the very best Happy New Year!
Thank you. I am so glad that you have and retain the important things. So many do not.
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Reading your words is a reminder that it's okay not to have everything figured out. Life has its own plans, and sometimes, our goals take a detour.
ReplyDeleteHappy New Year. Peace, health and happiness matter most in life, more than anything else.
ReplyDeleteThis is so true, Agree! This needs to be shared to everyone especially to those people think that they're late to their goals.
ReplyDeleteReading your reflections on the year is refreshing and relatable. Life has its curveballs, and sometimes goals don't align with reality. Your positivity and resilience are truly inspiring!
ReplyDeleteI like your attitude! Yes, we need to keep the things that are most important to us at the top of our goal setting. Wishing you all the best in 2024! Stephanie
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This is so true, Taking the time to reflex on your past year, not forgetting the most important things in like is our family being thanksful that most american have employment. Happy new year to and your family too.
ReplyDeleteRosey, wishing you a happy and healthy new year!
ReplyDeleteI read that only 9% of people meet their New Year’s resolutions. Maybe having a positive perspective is more important!
ReplyDeleteHappy New Year! I appreciate your positive take on last year and seeing a glass half full and working upwards in 2024.
ReplyDeleteDebbie
Weight loss as we age offers some extra challenges. It is possible but only with clear focus and research as to what the real issue is.
ReplyDeleteI dont like resolutions. It creates additional pressure. Health (both mental and physical) is my main wish to all. Without health, everything else looses its potential.
ReplyDeleteAlways have that great attitude!
ReplyDeleteIt has been a trying year for many. Happy New Year!
ReplyDeleteHappy New Year to you xx Love this post and also your take on the job rejection, such a positive way to think and I'm sure your dream job is out there and in the meantime at least like you say the job you have pays the bills and has some perks xx
ReplyDeleteWell, its ok not to achieve goals but need to not give up either. I'm sure you have many achievements.
ReplyDeleteI wish you and your family a very happy and blessed new year. I don’t believe in resolutions but I have few goals to achieve this year.
ReplyDeleteEverything is a work in progress! Wishing you a happy new year and best of luck with your goals :)
ReplyDeleteWishing you all have a Happy New Year all the time, keep going and dont give up be the best!
ReplyDeleteYour ability to always see the positive in any situation is always so inspiring to me. I did not reach any of my goals in 2023 either, but definitely have a plan to keep at them this year. It was a rough year for most of us, but I'm going to keep the faith that we can all have a great 2024!
ReplyDeleteOh, and Happy New Year my friend!
ReplyDeleteGlad you are not pushing yourself to anxiety. Often times we forget that it is as important to focus on mental health as the body. Happy 2024 to you and yours!
ReplyDeleteHappy New Year too! I love how positive you are despite not meeting your 2023 goals. Hoping for a better and kinder year this 2024. And yes, peace, health and happiness matters most.
ReplyDeleteWhat a wonderfully positive and resilient outlook on life! Your ability to focus on gratitude for the essential things, despite facing challenges, is truly inspiring. It's clear that you have a strong sense of perspective and an unwavering commitment to embracing the good in every situation. May the new year bring you continued peace, health, and happiness, and may you achieve all the ongoing goals that contribute to your overall well-being. Wishing you and your loved ones a truly fantastic and fulfilling Happy New Year! 🌟
ReplyDeleteGoals and Resolutions can always be achieved next time but the safety and happiness of our family is more important. Definitely a great outlook and reminder for everyone
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